I’m a few weeks into my winter hibernation and have finally recovered from the holidays. My social battery is back to a normal level (shh, I’m still hibernating). This January, I had nothing to do at night but listen to audiobooks while I organized every. single. drawer, made soup after soup, eat healthy, walk/yoga, read juicy novels (or books on how to talk to our spiritual guides or be a better leader), and put on soooo many face, hair, and even feet masks. And you bet the sauna blanket and red light therapies were at the ready for TV binging. Today I’ll dive into the dumb but SO WORTHWHILE beauty stuff that makes me feel great (yes, even the cheap stuff). I run dry, especially after the cortisol highs and over-indulgence of the holidays. But you see, I have a philosophy that most masks, like most forms of exercise, are worth doing, and are even GREAT. Of course, some are “better” than others, have better ingredients, are more effective, blah blah, but honestly, they almost all improve your skin and make you feel better. The cheap ones still give that glow and, more importantly, give you that sense that you took care of yourself. I would even theorize that the act of simply setting aside the time away from others and rubbing it on your skin, face, and hair sends a happy signal to your brain – Hey brain, I care about this body.

It all starts with the bath…

I have bought so many fancy bath oils over the years (my favorite is still this Jo Malone, but it’s too expensive for day-to-day use), but since I bathe so much in the winter, I really only use Dr. Teals foaming bath in lavender ($11 for two bottles). It smells good, foams up so easily, and lasts for 20 baths (the whole month). I do NOT like any jars of garbage that leave weird flakes or residue in my bath that I then have to clean, and this one doesn’t (a side of “chores” with your relaxing??? No thank you.) Oh, and I do NOT like a rock in my bath, waiting for them to dissolve to “work”. I’ve got feelings.

I recently bought a huge jar of magnesium flakes (I bought it locally, but found it $9 less on dumb Amazon – GD you Amazon!!). It’s unscented, so you can combine the flakes with the bubble bath. There are soooooooo many oils, salts, and rubs out there. My suggestion is to stick to one scent you love because it tells your brain that it’s time to relax when you smell it (that Jo Malone scent will always remind me of lockdown, as I used it almost nightly then, so it has an odd nostalgia for me now). I don’t have a scrub that I can recommend, but in my experience, they all make your skin so soft, and the fancier ones are slightly better but go so fast.

After bath, I’ve been dry brushing and my goodness I LOVE it (I just learned how to do it properly). Now I dry brush right before bed, too (it’s so exhilarating). I already had the HigherDOSE drybrush, but was given it again by a friend who is super into this stuff because it’s her favorite as well (I’m sure a more affordable one like this would also work well). P.S. I don’t believe dry brushing like a normal person actually gets rid of cellulite (hello, marketing), but it’s a huge mood boost and stimulates your largest organ in such a fun way (I don’t doubt that it does good things for your lymphatic system, but just get annoyed with slogans like that). And then I’ve been putting on this body butter that was gifted to me from Kai, and I feel like quite the woman sliding into bed – I smell soooooo good.

medicube PDRN Pink Peptide Serum | ExfoliKate Intensive Treatment | Clay Face Mask | HigherDOSE Dry Brush | Pure Radiance Foot Mask | Depology Serum-Infused Microdart Patches | Snail Mucin Sheet Mask | Dr. Teal’s Foaming Bath | PRDN Collagen Jelly Cream

Face Masks

I’m not the lady with 1/2 used face mask jars – I LOVE a mask. Gel, Clay, sheet masks – $2 or $200. I will put it on my face. I still love the Exfolikate “Hollywood’s 2 minute facial” (I’ll notice a distinct glow for 3 days) and recently have become a FULL CONVERT of all things Medicube or any Korean beauty products with good old-fashioned Salmon Sperm. I LOVE these PDRN masks (4 for $20, so more for special occasions), but for an everyday mask, this one is awesome and under a dollar a piece (also Korean PDRN). PDRN is basically salmon sperm DNA (I’m confused TBH) that helps you rejuvenate skin cells and promotes collagen reproduction. It’s both topical and internal. It’s no joke, and it’s absolutely noticeable. When I was first recommended it (like 8 months ago), I stockpiled it because I was so nervous that it was going to sell out (it’s oddly affordable). So now I have all of these and just smother the hell out of them on my face:

Allover Gel for Collage and Skin Barrier Hydration and PDRN Peptides for All Over Evenness (and Moisture and Plumpness, etc) – These were my gateway into it; I just couldn’t believe what a difference it made instantly in plumpness and firmness.
PDNR Jelly – I think it’s more expensive because it has more salmon sperm in it…(LOL). I got Jess and her friend in love with this one, too.

I don’t have any great nightly moisturizer right now, thus the amount of masks (I need recs for Korean PDNR moisturizer, not just jelly), but I’m trying Charlotte Tilbury’s “Magic Cream” because I had a sample pot and it feels really good. I also got a few solid recs from Natasha Glasgow, a clean beauty expert whom I follow and trust a lot because she doesn’t get paid by brands – FOLLOW HER. She told me about INNBEAUTY PROJECT Extreme Eye Cream, and I’ve been using it for 2 weeks and really love it (it’s so soft and creamy). Kaitlin also loves it:)

Hair Masks

For hair masks, I’ll try anything and do. I have famously dry, fine, curly, and porous hair (and I highlight it) – the real trifecta of “bad,” so I should be masking weekly. Here’s what I’ve been using in January:

Briogeo – I think the whole “Don’t Despair, Repair” slogan got me. Love it.
Kerastase – This is the one every hairstylist I’ve had recommends or sells at their salon. I use it and like it, but can’t tell a difference between the two masks, but trust them.

I just ordered this one because the reviews of it are so good. Listen, one time on a two-week shoot, my hairstylist ordered me to put normal conditioner on my hair, wrap it in Saran Wrap, and sleep on it. The next day it was the softest and silkiest it hasever been. So, again, I think if you have real damage, do some research to address your needs, but also, anything is better than nothing, and sometimes the cheap stuff really works in a pinch 🙂

I feel like I could keep going… But I’d really love to take a break and force you to witness my first nude photo shoot of 2026. I was so sick of shooting myself in front of my vanity putting on a cream, so we did this instead, and equal parts hilarity and regret. OK, other important things:

1. Get yourself a waterproof Kindle – I read self-improvement books as hard/softback so I can highlight and come back to them, but all my fiction is on Kindle. Then read my recs for romance novels and turn up that hand nozzle!
2. Light a candle – Duh. Again, most candles are created fairly equal to me. I love the viral Heirloom Tomato from Flamingo Estate and also any $8 fancy wannabe from Target (I stay away from anything too fruity).

Before we had a nice tub, I would put a stool next to our smaller tub and put an iPad on it, throw on Veronica Mars (back on Netflix!!), and sit in the tub for an hour. I’ve also been red-lighting it all over the place. The hat (for follicle regrowth), the face mask, and the blanket (yes, I’ve had partnerships in the past and am so grateful to use them). I’ve now gotten into the habit of daily use (4-5 times a week), which all the research says simply works. Red light stimulates collagen naturally and does a billion other good things.

I won’t bother to get into my supplement routine (I had to buy an XL weekly pill organizer). I’m tackling that heart inflammation in 2026, 13 huge pills at a time. I’m excited to get my second round of Function Health lab testing to see if any of it has actually worked…

Anyway, that turned into quite the rant. I stand by my thesis – Just like working out, any time you take for self-care is a net positive, a big “value add,” they say in business. If you have some solid recs, leave them in the comments. I love to try new things and am your #1 sucker for enthusiastic recommendations:)

*Photos by Kailtin Green

Well, here we go…. Ready or not 🙂 Gifting season can begin today, and we are doing it differently this year in hopes of making all our shopping easier. My team and I worked tirelessly building a new feature on the site and curating what we think is simply the best stuff worth buying, owning, or giving. The shop page is categorized “For Her” (fashion/beauty), “For Home,” “For Him” (Brian did most of this), “For Kids/Tweens/Teens” (our kids were heavily involved), and “For Boomers” (straight from our parents’ mouths). As well as “Gifts Under $50” and “Great Gifts For Anyone.” Everything is directly clickable and very easy to navigate. We’ll be adding to the list weekly as new products crop up or as we shop in person locally and see something rad. I really hope they help give you ideas and check some of the boxes that can make this season a bit stressful.

Today’s post will highlight my favorite fashion/beauty (mostly what I own) with some pretty new styled out shots from Kaitlin. Let’s face it, these posts are more for you to buy for yourselves, but if there is anything you like, copy and paste and send to the gift givers in your life (trust me, they want the help).

The black and white sweater is so easy to wear, layer over or under, and the multi-stripe makes it not boring.
The Madewell darted barrel is excellent (size down and comes in a lot of different colors/fabrics now). Great if you are like me and don’t want crazy high-waisted (I find these the most flattering barrel pants on the market).
The heeled ankle boots I’m wearing have won “most comfortable boot” 2 years in a row, and my new tall boots (leaning) are so good you are going to get sick of seeing me in them.

MIXED STRIPE SWEATER $128

DARTED BARREL-LEG JEAN $148

ABEL WESTERN BOOTIE $135

Here are some more things I love…

CHARM NECKLACE $21

BURGUNDY TOTE $108

CHORE JACKET $148

Charm Necklace: I bought this for myself – but the kids buy the charms 🙂 It’s a scrapbook I can wear around my neck.
Burgundy Tote: Big enough for everyday but still looks polished.
Chore Jacket: Excellent color, fit, style, and easy to wear. Done.

PARK TALL LEATHER BOOTS $250

CROSSBODY BAG $30

FLEECE VEST $98

Tall Leather Boots: How classic are these tall boots – timeless.
Crossbody Bag: An affordable yet high-end-looking crossbody bag.
Fleece Vest: A fantastic vest for us enthusiastic walkers (hides my weighted vest really well).

For a splurgier sweater, Varley truly knows how to make things unexplainably comfortable. That Target throw is also great, should you want that subtle pattern.

LEXINGTON OVERSIZED BAG $228

STRIPED ROLLNECK SWEATER $118

CRESCENT BAG $84

Lexington Oversized Bag: I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t want to receive this.
Striped Rollneck Sweater: An easy-to-wear, layerable, cozy sweater that’s not boring.
Crescent Bag: Love the black and brown combo – makes it so easy to go with everything.

I finally found my trench. And with an excellent secret plaid pattern (you can see it on the sleeve) that is easy to layer over (I sized up, wearing a M, so I could put it over thin sweatshirts or sweaters).
The jeans are very flattering, while being a great wash (scroll the post to see them sans-boots).

AVEC LES FILLES TRENCH COAT $188

CLASSIC CREW CARDIGAN $80

VARLEY FILEY COLLARED SWEATER $198

LED RED LIGHT THERAPY MASK $470

Trench Coat: This coat has the best plaid on the inside and cuffs.
Classic Crew Cardigan: Has great reviews and comes in a lot of colors (including vivid red).
Varley Filey Collared Sweater: Incredibly soft, drapey, and such a beautiful color. Perfect for a cozy sweater lover.
LED Red Light Therapy Mask: An INCREDIBLE gift for anyone in your life who loves skincare and might be interested in wanting to boost that collagen production. 10/10!

BERKLEY BAG $298

BELLA STRETCH WIDE LEG JEANS $50

BROWN BALLET FLATS $90

Berkley Bag: Big enough for a laptop, but still really elegant. I love the fold-over top and the color so much.
Bella Stretch Wide Leg Jeans: Viral jeans for a reason – so great and only $50.
Brown Ballet Flats: Apparently, brown ballet flats are the IT flat for 2026.

The dark burgundy wool hat is making all my bad hair days so much easier (and I like that it’s dressier than a trucker hat).
And shout out to the Target necklace that looks so much more expensive than it is.

ALPACA SWEATER $128

TALL BROWN BOOTS $269

WOOL BASEBALL HAT $45

Alpaca Sweater: So soft, slouchy, and easy to layer on top of (it’s thinner than it looks).
Tall Brown Boots: My new boots that are perfect, TBH. Great with dresses, easy to shove pants into. Perfect heel.
Wool Baseball Hat: 10/10 great flattering shape. I’ve been wearing this constantly

The sweater is crazy soft and lightweight (some magical wool, methinks). And I’m clearly in my belt era, and this one is great (sueded on one side, perfect patina – from Madewell).

CARGO PANTS $138

LIONESS JEAN JACKET $125

GRANDE FANNY PURSE $385

Cargo Pants: These cargo pants come in a ton of colors (I’m wearing ‘teak’ literally while writing this). I love them.
Denim Jacket: I love the toggles on this Lioness Jacket (and the contrast collar).
Grande Fanny Purse: A splurgy cool bag by Clare V. – IYKYK. I bought mine almost 4 years ago and still wear it.

PLAID BASEBALL HAT $42

LAD CARDIGAN $198

EMERSON FRY DRESS $198

Plaid Hat: Wear with fleece, hoodies, trench coats – more elevated than a trucker hat!
Lad Cardigan: Comes in a lot of colors and is easy to layer.
Emerson Fry Dress: So easy to throw on, flattering, and multi-seasonal.

A great green stripe shirt (holiday adjacent?) that is in a fabric that doesn’t wrinkle easily, and a nice boxy shape that has huge cuffs. It’s so good for work. These are the jeans that I’m loving/wearing (especially when I have a heel). They make me feel pretty good, you guys – a great cut and fit for those of us who miss skinny jeans (Brian loves these). Big shout out to this Quince belt bag – exceptional quality for the price. A great Clare V. alternative.

ITALIAN SUEDE SLING BAG $74

THE VINTAGE FLARE JEANS $148

STRIPED POPLIN SHIRT $98

Suede Sling Bag: LOVE THIS. Like Clare V. but way more affordable.
Flare Jeans: I feel hot in these, full stop.
Striped Poplin Shirt: A fantastic cut that is easy to wear and has great structure.

Two of my favorite sweaters this season – the white quarterzip has great details (and nice cuffs). The navy blue cashmere is so thin and soft and flattering (and comes in a lot of colors). Both outfits are with the darted barrel pants (the olive ones are the slack version, and they were out of my size, so these are a bit big, again size down). I think we can all agree that the scarf around my head is so cute – if only I had a convertible…in Italy 🙂

BLACK CHECKERED BAG $308

DAY GLOVE FLAT $148

CASHMERE CROP POLO SWEATER $168

Checkered Bag: Handmade in Portland, this bag is incredible and worth every penny – I LOVE THIS BAG
Day Glove Flats: I have these in both nude and navy. I wear them ALL THE TIME.
Cashmere Polo Sweater: I love this. So flattering and soft and easy to layer over. 10/10

DAILY PULLOVER SWEATSHIRT $138

STRIPED TOTE BAG $68

CHECK ANKLE SOCK $12

Daily Pullover Sweatshirt: A quarter zip with a lot of great details.
Striped Tote Bag: These colors – PERFECTION. Great for every day (or weekend trips).
Check Ankle Socks: You may know that Em is a big fan of a patterned sock to help elevate is simple outfit, and these absolutely fit into that category. Cute but classic.

VALENCIA CARDI $198

GEO SILK BANDANA $32

HEART CHARM BRACELET $48

Valencia Cardi: A zip up sweater that’s perfect for fall through winter (and super layerable).
Silk Bandana: The prettiest color palette that pops a bit (but not too much).
Heart Charm Bracelet: Great charm bracelet.

Two Target sweaters that are pretty great. Both of these are so soft, with the cream one being more oversized and long, and the brown more boxy and wide. The darted barrel jeans are on the left, and my $50 Quince Bellas are on the right.

Extra credit if your sweater matches your adorable pup. Hi Buttercup!

LL BEAN SLIPPERS $89

HINGE CUFF BRACELET $58

STRAPPED ANKLE BOOT $90

LL Bean Slippers: Between these LL Bean Slippers and my tall Uggs, my “coldsies-feetsies” are fully covered this winter.
Cuff Bracelet: I mix this cuff with a lot of others to add some structure (I like the architectural nature of it).
Staped Ankle Boot: These leather boots have such nice detail for the price.

Another great blouse that was designed for easy wearing – i.e. doesn’t hug anywhere, drapes really well in a fabric that doesn’t wrinkle with a short front that is easy to 1/2 tuck. Dress her up or down. Or pair the with the vintage flares like I did and pointy slingbacks.

POINTED-TOE SLINGBACK PUMPS $158

OVAL-BUCKLE BELT $78

EASY Y-NECK BUTTON-UP SHIRT $98

Pointed-Toe Slingback Pumps: Very flattering shoes (great for the office or dinner out).
Oval-Buckle Belt: The perfect belt that’s also reversible!
Easy Y-Neck Button-Up Shirt: Drapes perfectly, looks awesome, and doesn’t wrinkle.

LEATHER T-STRAP $198

THE GREAT FLEECE $275

VEGAN LEATHER FLAT BUCKLE BELT $50

T-Strap Flats: I really want these T-straps (“T straps” are “supposed” to be the new “ballet flat”). But also so classic.
Fleece: A fantastic color combination for a splurgy gift for someone who loves casual high-end fashion.
Leather Flat Buckle Belt: I have this belt in both brown and black. Simple, but still gives “western”… just a bit.

BANDANA $15

BOURBON JACKET $198

SANCTUARY HEELS $120

Bandana: An easy-to-wear bandana (you know I’m a fan).
Bourbon Jacket: A great cut of a classic coat with mixed fabrics.
Sanctuary Heels: I can only wear comfortable, wider heels – these still look polished and not too chunky.

UGG TALL BOOTS $220

SOFTEST MODAL PJS $45

PIPPA PACKABLE PUFFER JACKET $198

Gap Pajamas: I take pajama sets seriously (mostly because I’m extremely picky about comfort and hate when anything cuts in or tugs or makes me sweat – I want to be so comfortable that I don’t even notice I’m wearing anything). My favorite set is from The Gap, this year by far.
Free People Puffer: The jacket I search for the most (it’s so cozy and easy to throw on) and comes in so many colors. It will never go out of fashion (and packs into its own pocket).
Ugg Tall Slipper Boots: I can’t do winter without these. I wear mostly inside because I work from home. LOVE.

BURGUNDY WOOL TRENCH COAT $230

THE LOVE KNOT BAG $78

ENGLISH FACTORY QUARTER ZIP $110

Wool Trench Coat: What a pretty classic wool trench coat. Will be in forever (and currently very on trend).
Knot Bag: I have this bag and love that it fits my laptop and a million other things, and the pattern is subtle but still so fun. It’s been my big carry-on on the last two quick flights I took.
Quarter Zip Sweater: I love this sweater’s unexpected color combination – and it comes in a few others as well.

Before I move on to beauty/hair/makeup, etc., don’t forget to head over to the fully curated gift guide for “her” that has so much more. The above are my pics because I either have and love or really want (and I like a pretty casual Portland lifestyle, but there are a lot more styles over there).

Beauty: Some Hair, Face, And Body Stuff I Love

I’m not a beauty expert but since I have to be on camera I try to take care of myself (getting older has new fun challenges). So here are a few things that I love (and some rounded out from my team).

Hair Tools:

DYSON HAIR DRYER $300

LONG HAIR CURLER $95

ROUGH DRY STYLING CREAM $32

Dyson Hair Dryer: If you have fine frizzy hair, this will make your hair so much smoother (and my goodness, it goes so fast).
Mint Curling Iron: I love that this is long and wide – great for long, loose waves.
Get Messy Hair Products: Just launched the shampoo/conditioner smells INCREDIBLE, and I love the texturizing spray (makes it piece-y but not greasy).

I’ve dove into Korean beauty products lately (I’m clearly not alone) and these are what I’m absolutely loving. All three do similar things with salmon DNA/sperm, and they plump you up and add a glow that looks instant and incredible. It’s honestly remarkable the difference. I also love these green striped towels from Anthro.

COLLAGEN GEL WITH SALMON DNA $28

PEPTIDE FIRMING SERUM $18

SALMON DNA ONE DAY SERUM $18

Collagen Gel with Salmon DNA: Another Korean beauty product that I’m obsessed with. Instantly plumps and glows (yes, salmon DNA FTW)
Peptide Firming Serum: Plumps up fine lines and feels incredible.
Salmon DNA One Day Serum: These capsules are like magic.

Shout out to the Amazon bathrobe that I actually bought for Elliot for her birthday, but decided to wear in this shoot because it was so festive. 🙂 Here are some other robes that I’m also very into:

CHECKERED ROBE $65

PARACHUTE WAFFLE ROBE $149

PATTERNED ROBE $120

Checkered Robe: I know that a patterned robe might not be as spa-like, but it’s my firm theory that robes can be really bulky (I never feel great in a big white robe), so a patterned one is simply more fun. I’ve worn the checkered one for years and love it.
Waffle Robe: This Parachute Waffle Robe is extremely popular (for a simpler spa-like style).
Patterned Robe: Brooklinen has a ton of EXCELLENT patterns (including classic stripes)
Striped Fleece Robe: The pink and red soft robe (great for big kids). It’s only $29. I’m getting it for Elliot, but it fits me, too.

BIODANCE FACE MASK $19

EXFOLIKATE $18

DR. DENNIS PLUMP + SMOOTH KIT $35

Biodance Face Mask: Bouncey and glassy. I subscribe to these and try to do one a month (at least).
ExfoliKate: Hollywood’s 2-minute facial. Forever and ever.
Dr. Dennis Gross Plump + Smooth Kit: We stand by the Dr. Dennis Gross Alpha Beta® Universal Daily Peel. It’s amazing. It makes your skin look luminous, hydrated, and this deal is great!

HYALURONIC ACID SUNSCREEN $23

NUTRAFOL HAIR SERUM $68

KAI BODY LOTION $42

Hyaluronic Acid Sunscreen: I’ve just been told I HAVE to wear this sunscreen (it’s supposed to be that good).
Nutrafol Pills and Serum: They have been nothing short of a miracle for me (and my hair panic). I have 4″ of new growth after some serious shedding, thanks to it (been on it since June).
Kai Body Lotion: Kai is my favorite scent ever (also comes in body wash).

HYDRATING SCALP SERUM $54

CLINIQUE CHUBBY STICK $25

GIORGIO ARMANI LUMINOUS SILK $48

Hydrating Scalp Serum: I’m on a scalp journey (like everyone else in Peri), and this one feels really good. I could write a whole post about all the stuff I’m trying for you scalp enthusiasts.
Clinique Chubby Stick: The best lip gloss that you can put on all day without a mirror (it’s really light). It’s very moisturizing. I’ve been wearing it for 15 years.
Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk: Once you go Luminous Silk, you can’t go back. It’s light coverage that is glowy, moisturizing, and goes on so evenly. I’ve been using it for 15 years (might be best for dry skin like mine).

I’ll be adding more and more to the Gift Guide shop page over the next 6 weeks, so please keep checking back (new pieces will be towards the top). And a huge thanks to my team for the hundreds of hours of “back-end” work. The page is so robust and full of so many incredible things. Shop HOME, HER, HIM, BOOMERS, KIDS/TWEENS, UNDER $50, and GREAT FOR ANYONE. Let us know what you think!

Phew! That was a lot. A quick message to you all:
I could keep going on and on and on, and I’m sure I’ll still miss some of my favorites. So please bookmark our new “For Her” curated gift guide, and we’ll be adding great things over there as they come out (or as we remember them). And let us know if you like this format – my team did such an incredible job (but so many hours/days/weeks) building it and pulling it together, and we are so excited, but always open to ideas on how to make it even better and easier to navigate.

Happy shopping 🙂 Head to the epic “For Her” guide here for even more. Thanks for being here. xx

*Photos by Kaitlin Green

The internet giveth, and the internet taketh away (mostly, my money and my inability to make confident, independent decisions). One minute, I’m innocently scrolling my Instagram feed. The next, I’ve convinced myself that a snail-based serum is the one thing standing between me and glowing skin. Or that I need a new perfume that smells like summer. Or that my whole personality might actually hinge on owning the perfect water bottle. (It’s kind of terrifying to imagine how many things in our homes have been dictated by an algorithm. Don’t think about it too much.) 

But you know what the craziest part is? Sometimes the algorithm’s right! Sometimes, its recommendations are actually worth the hype. That said, I’ve also fallen for stuff that now lives in a drawer, untouched, collecting dust and/or guilt – my goal here is to help you avoid making those same mistakes.

So today’s post isn’t a haul or a guide. It’s a reckoning: a review of the viral things I bought because the Internet wouldn’t shut up about them. Think of it like a Link Up, but one that also tells you what not to buy. We’re considering this as a new series (I just bought some pillow covers that I will happily talk smack about, if given the option…), so let us know what you think! Shall we?

Sambas

I don’t know if “the internet” made me buy these so much as, uh, every single person walking the streets of LA. I’ve had my Sambas for over a year and they’re a great daily sneaker that have since been put through the ringer – we’re talking sandy beach walks in coastal Oregon; muddy, lush rainforests of Tropical North Queensland; weekly 8 mile treks through the flea market.

The good news: other than their scraped soles and creased toes, they essentially look new. They come in a ton of colors. They’re on-trend enough to wear with pretty much anything. The bad news: I find Sambas to be an absolute pain – both literally and metaphorically – to break in. WHERE WAS THE DISCOURSE ABOUT THIS? No one warned me!!! But the pain was worth it in the end, and you can take my perfectly molded Sambas from my cold, dead hands.

Verdict: The internet is right about these.

TikTok’s Favorite Water Bottle

Oh man. I WANT TO LOVE HER, I DO. I grabbed this kettlebell-shaped replacement last December after leaving my go-to bottle on the other side of the world. I loved its irreverent shape; I loved that it came in a rainbow of punchy hues (I sprung for the above, but it was a tough choice!); I loved the built-in handle. Yet I’ve rarely used this bottle over the past 9 months for one reason alone: I do not want to be responsible for the twist-off lid.

I’m a woman who forgot she was carrying a 40 oz. bottle. I was schlepping two and a half pounds of water, and I just left it somewhere. Why did I think I’d be responsible enough to care for a tiny cap? I’m supposed to keep track of this tiny item every time I take a sip? NOT HAPPENING, SISTER. I should have just gotten another ThermoFlask, TBH.

Verdict: It’s a high-quality water bottle for those who don’t suffer from crippling ADHD.

A Clare V. Bag

I am here to report – with great regret – that Clare V.’s bags are, tragically, worth the price tag. There are many imitators out there (I own and love this knockoff crossbody, for example), but nothing compares to the texture, drape, and ease of a Clare V. piece. The bags have this natural, cool-girl slouchiness that other leather producers can’t imitate.

I grabbed the Petit Moyen as a birthday gift to myself in 2022 – it was a fraught decision, but I thought it was a bit more timeless than some of her trendier pieces – and it’s a joy to wear. Clare V.’s bags aren’t cheap, but they do live up to their hype.

Verdict: They’re even better IRL, somehow. Why was I cursed with expensive taste?

Snail Mucin

If you’re into skincare, I have little doubt that you’re familiar with COSRX’s viral Snail Mucin. It’s heralded as a secret moisturizing weapon – a key pre-moisturizer step that soothes angry skin, improves texture, and locks in moisture. For a while, I believed the hype! And then, I pulled the Snail Mucin from my routine, and…nothing changed. It wasn’t doing anything.

I swapped the essence for a cheaper moisturizing rice milk (!!!) recommended by my local Korean beauty store. And it makes a huge difference – prepping my skin with a few pumps of his milk keeps my moisturizer locked in for 48 hours! Snail Mucin could never. (I can’t believe I fell for it.)

Verdict: Overhyped! There’s better Korean beauty out there. (But it is also pretty novel and fun, so no one will fault you for adding it to your rotation.)

Le Bon Shoppe Socks

Earlier this year, the EHD team took a trip to The Carly, a fabulous boutique rental property in Oregon’s wine country. One morning, while making breakfast in our sweats, I glanced down at our feet – we were all wearing these socks from Le Bon Shoppe.

If you’re not familiar, Le Bon Shoppe is an LA-based brand that’s taken the world by storm over the past two years. And it’s well-deserved, because these are the best fashion socks I’ve ever worn. (The best cozy socks are fleece-lined from Columbia, obviously. But I live in LA where it’s 80 degrees in October, so fashion socks it is!) ANYWAY – these are light, cheery, and they wash up like a dream. I’ll never go back.

Verdict: These are the only socks I’ve worn for a year. The internet was spot on.

Dieux Eye Serum

Here’s a nice story: In my early 20s, I went to a (straight and male) friend’s apartment to watch The Bachelor. During a commercial break, he looked at my baby crow’s lines and told me that I should start Botox. MY STRAIGHT MALE FRIEND SAID THAT TO ME. I didn’t even know men were looking that closely!!!! It gave me a complex, and I’ve been obsessed with eye cream ever since.

This Auracle gel takes “eye cream” to the next level. It’s deeply rich, moisturizing, and so smoothing that I’ve started using it on my marionette lines. It doesn’t ball up, and it keeps the area moisturized ALL DAY. Dieux is a (relatively) new brand that found its home with the TikTok crowd, so let this be a formal stamp of approval from someone who’s tried more eye creams than I can remember.

Verdict: It’s so good, I forget that I’m insecure!

Bondi Beach Dry Shampoo

If you’re an avid reader, you know where I fall on this beauty influencer-beloved dry shampoo. THE HYPE IS REAL, thankfully. I swear on my life: this dry shampoo totally transformed my fine, thin, grease-prone hair. I used to wash my hair daily – now I can go FIVE DAYS between washes. (To be fair, my scalp feels kind of icky by that point – having clean hair just feels good! – but you’d visually never be able to guess that my hair had gone so long sans-wash.)

I love this dry shampoo so much that I have stashes on both coasts. I buy two at a time. If I were an Egyptian king, this would be entombed with me. If they ever stop selling it, I will buy out every bottle on eBay. AND it smells like Rosemary, if you’re into that.

Verdict: Everyone else in this category should give up. Nothing can compare to Bondi Boost.

Birkenstock Big Buckle Sandals

The call is coming from inside the house, folks – even I am susceptible to Emily Henderson’s #emfluence. She’s been wearing these big buckle sandals for years, and she’s had nothing but good things to say…so naturally, when my mom offered to buy me a pair of Birks as a thank-you gift earlier this summer, these were the ones I picked.

WHY DID I WAIT SO LONG?! They’re so comfortable. They’re SO cute. The arch support is a godsend. And they’re Birkenstocks, so you know they’ll last forever (I’m still wearing my 20-year-old Boston clogs from high school!). So let this be a lesson to you (and me): Emily knows quality footwear.

Verdict: It wasn’t so much “the internet” as “my boss,” but these were worth every penny.

Vacation Sunscreen Perfume

For two summers, the ads for Vacation’s sunscreen-scented perfume have followed me around the internet. They’re on TikTok. They’re on Instagram. They were even here, on the blog, as I tried to write blog posts. This year, I caved.

And OH MAN, IT’S A GOOD ONE. I typically prefer super fresh scents (my go-to was previously Clean’s Warm Cotton, for those who want to smell like fresh laundry), but there’s something complex, nostalgic, and fun here. I’ve recently been pairing a spritz with my Santal-scented deodorant (it’s natural and aluminum-free, to boot!) and have literally never gotten more compliments about smelling good.

Verdict: The internet is correct about this solely because of the ego boost it’s given me.

The Madewell Bandana

For years, I have tried to be the cool, effortless type of woman who can tie a bandana around her neck. Here’s the honest truth: I don’t have the build for it. When a bandana hits this neck, my huge dome and tiny chin are accentuated, and I look like some sort of thumb, or like the girl with the green ribbon, or like the friendly worm from Richard Scarry’s Busy Town.

All that to say: most of my Madewell bandanas are worn in my hair or tied around the strap of a bag. And honestly…I think they’re a little too expensive to justify that use case. (Cotton bandanas are about $15, silk about $69. Pricey, no?) Instead, I’d suggest sourcing your bandanas at your local estate sale or thrift store. (I’ve found Hermes scarves at estate sales for less than the price of one Madewell bandana – you never know!)

Verdict: They’re cute; I’ve had several for over a decade. But if you can find better pricing elsewhere, take it!

Starface Pimple Patches

Okay, okay. I don’t want to say that the internet is wrong about the Starface patches, per se, but I’d argue that they are highly overrated. (it could also be argued that I am about 20 years removed from the target demographic, so take my opinion with a grain of salt.)

I’m thrilled that Starface has normalized acne treatments; I love seeing confident teens who no longer feel held back by unexpected breakouts. But I’m going to be honest with you: these just don’t work as well as the COSRX version (which makes sense, seeing as COSRX invented the entire “zit patch” category). If building community is the goal, it’s nice to be in the in crowd sometimes! – Starface patches are great. But if you’re trying to clear a zit the night before a big event, turn to something with more history.

Verdict: These are not intended for 34-year-old women.

At the end of the day, I don’t know if the internet is making me a better shopper or just a more suggestible one with extremely moisturized under-eyes. But I suppose that’s part of the charm of being influenced by your algorithm – it’s about finding the gems, making peace with the flops, and telling yourself that next time you won’t be seduced by good branding and one million glowing reviews. (You will. I will. It’s fine.)

And now, I need to ask: Have you tried any of these? Did you like this format? Will you give me free rein to write a home decor version of this so I can talk smack on those pillow covers? LET’S CHAT. See you in the comments… xx

Opening Image Credits: Photo by Kaitlin Green | From: My Current Favorite Lightweight Trousers On My Body

One thing I feel most of us can agree on is the desire for hydrated skin. Sure, there are more important things in this world to think about but as we head into fall and then winter (dun, dun, duuuuunnnnnn), most of us are going to need to put some extra focus on moisturization. I myself have fairly dry skin but also have a bit of an issue with milia (those little white bumps that you can’t pop, DO NOT TRY). This means I need a decent amount of hydration but have to be careful about using oils (due to possible congestion/milia). Also, exfoliating is key but enough about me. Other gals on the team have totally different needs! So we decided to have a little dish sesh on what our favorite moisturizing products are that help make our faces feel their best. I mean moisturized skin is happy skin, right? Let’s get into it.

Emily

Skin Type: Very Dry

As you know I have very dry skin, but also smallish pores which sounds good but it often means that it’s hard to get the moisture inside. I have to gently exfoliate a lot (I love the Pixie pads) and then I slap my face with 1/2 a vial of this hyaluronic acid (and Vitamin C serum of the same brand) and let that soak in. I still love ExfoliKate because of the immediate results that I get (smooth, glowing, soft, etc) but I change the moisturizer that I put on top of my ISIDN often. I have sensitive skin and will break out if it’s too thick but it’s also dry and I want something so moist (clearly I need help and no I don’t go to a dermatologist, but probably could). Anyway, these capsules make my skin so happy.

Caitlin

Skin Type: Dry & Super Sensitive

Lazy, lizard-skinned gals, this one is for you: after years of trial and error, I’ve whittled down my routine to TWO STEPS. Step one: this gentle oil cleanser that simultaneously exfoliates and moisturizes – it’s extraordinary. Not stripping, naturally derived, and it can remove makeup, too! I keep mine in the shower and use a few pumps every time I’m in there.

Step two: this all-in-one serum that (actually) replaces EVERY OTHER PRODUCT. It’s pretty pricey (though you can grab the travel size for $20 now!) and the dropper needs improvement (it can be a little difficult to use), but otherwise, IT’S MAGIC. 100% natural, lightweight, moisturizing, brightening, skin-clearing – the chemist behind this deserves a medal. I throw it on damp skin 2x per day and the scaly, sensitive patches on my face have disappeared!

And I can’t say enough about these sheet masks – they’re Korean, recommended by my local skincare store (and I live in Koreatown, so I’m getting the good recs right from the source!), and they lock in moisture unlike any other mask I’ve ever tried. I love bringing them on flights, on girls’ nights, or just throwing one on as a special treat after one of those full-body super-showers:)

Arlyn

Skin Type: Is “Can’t Make Up Its Mind” a skin type? No? Okay then…combination. Oily in the T-zone, sometimes dry around my eyes and cheeks

In a shocking turn of events, my face has been so dry lately (a drastic change from the oil slick it tends to be in these swampy months). I had just reupped my everyday moisturizer so I didn’t want to buy another one and waste this one. Instead, I bought this wonderful and affordable rosehip oil to layer underneath my moisturizer and I really, really love it. My face feels so well hydrated, not the least bit greasy (even if I get a little heavy-handed) as it absorbs so fast, and it wears great under makeup. I use it day and night, and have also been rubbing it into my hair ends when needed as well as my cuticles. It’s lovely and super affordable!

When my face is acting normal, my everyday moisturizer on its own really really great—plus it’s available at Target, which is so easy and accessible. It blends in and absorbs super fast, leaves my face feeling pretty well balanced (unless I’m using another product that is drying), doesn’t break me out, and works well day or night. Oh, it’s also great under makeup since my skin absorbs it, rather than sitting on the skin surface like some others I’ve used.

Jess

Skin Type: Normal to Dry

I’ve now been using Dieux’s New Air Angel Collagen & Peptide Hydrating Gel Cream for almost two months and I have been SO happy with it. It feels so great going on the skin and doesn’t feel heavy at all. Sometimes with lighter gel creams they just don’t hydrate enough but for me, this has been just the right amount. I do plan on buying their Instant Angel Lipid-Rich Barrier Repair Cream with Ceramides, which is richer, for these upcoming dryer months when I know I’ll need it. So glad I finally tried this brand and plan on it being a keeper:)

If you are looking for a lighter, overnight mask, this mask from Youth to the People is great! I always love how my skin looks and feels when I wake up and it’s so easy to sleep in. It drys fast and just feels like a thickish moisturizer.

Then this is not a rec (yet) because I haven’t tried it but apparently this eye cream is great for people who deal with milia! Anyone have any thoughts or reviews? Please let me know!!

Mallory

Skin Type: Combination

I have combo skin (oily in the T-zone but dry everywhere else) and typically, I switch between 3 different moisturizers. If I’m feeling fancy I use this guy in the morning and then this guy at night. The Olay one has vitamin c and is so creamy and luxurious plus my makeup glides right over it. The Neutrogena one is VERY hydrating which I love for before bed and it makes your skin real dewy. If I’m feeling like I don’t wanna spend that much on lotion though/sometimes you just need an everyday bare necessity lotion and that’s this guy. Tried and true. CeraVe never does me wrong so I always travel with the small bottle of this:)

Gretchen

Skin Type: “Normal” but can definitely lean oily

For me, I like a moisturizer that gives me hydration without leaving me feeling greasy. This stuff from The Ordinary has been working great for me for a while now. It comes out pretty thick, and a little goes a long way, but once it’s on the skin it feels so smooth and light. I love that it comes in such a big tube at such a low price point. I haven’t had to repurchase yet, but won’t hesitate when the time comes!

We hope this quick little roundup of what we love/works for our skin helps!! If you have any moisturizers you love drop them in the comments (and if you could add your skin type that would be extra helpful:))

Love you, mean it.

Opening Image Credits: Photo by Kaitlin Green | From: **Introducing** Our Farmhouse Primary Bathroom Reveal (FINALLY)

After almost 15 years of being on camera, I know how I like my face to look and I’m pretty darn assertive about it (which is much preferred by hair and makeup artists – no one wants someone who doesn’t communicate clearly). So when I’m working with a new hair/makeup artist I usually show photos of me that I like and then give the following descriptors: 

• I like to look clean, natural, bright and glowy (I also likely say the word ‘youthful’, too, LOL).

• I want my eyes and cheeks and lips to pop (I joke, like a porcelain baby doll).

• I don’t want to look tanner or bronzed (so no contouring) I understand this is ironic what with my self-tanning side profession, but on my face? NOPE. An unnaturally tan face looks cheesy and older IMHO. 

• I don’t like eye shadow (and will likely take it off). Reflective is fine or very soft/neutral can be ok but I find that I very much don’t like the look of eye shadow on me.

• I like a clean line (not smudgy) of eyeliner on the top lash line but not the bottom (same with mascara but I’ve had lash extensions forever so I don’t wear mascara).

Danielle Walch did my makeup in LA for over 10 years (I love her so much) so we didn’t even have to think about it. I’m so happy to have found Alyssa Fitchie up here in Portland who is my go-to hire for HMU (which is usually three times a month). I find that I’m WAY more excited to be on camera if I’m feeling good about how I look (shocking) and so I’ll stack all my ad campaigns into one day a week and get HMU so I look/feel my best (and yes, I change clothes for every job). She usually comes 7-8 am or 8-9 am depending on how much we have to shoot (she doesn’t stay all day so is able to take other jobs during the day) and we bang out shoot after shoot (some for reveals, some videos, others for just social campaigns). I honestly wish I could have her come every day. So today we are showing you what she does and what products she uses on me (which are different than the seven things I’ve used for 15 years). 

Ok, here we go!

1. Moisturize!

Before we start, Alyssa makes sure I’m moisturized. I feel like it’s pretty much common knowledge that skin prep is crucial for your makeup to look good and stay looking good on your skin. So don’t forget that face lotion.

2. Primer (Face And Eyes)

It’s so easy to want to skip this step but don’t. This is going to make your makeup stay on throughout the day (or night) and is really going to help avoid any creasing. Alyssa uses Smashbox Photo Finish Smooth & Blur Oil-Free Foundation Primer for my face and Urban Decay’s Eyeshadow Primer Potion (Anti-Aging) on my lids. Oh, and she said to make sure to get the anti-aging one because the other version dries and flakes which is clearly not what we want:) The under-eye primer she typically uses is now discontinued (RUDE). She’s still on the hunt for her new favorite but in the meantime, she recommends Bobbi Brown Vitamin Enriched Eye Base.

3. Color Corrector

Alyssa then uses a color corrector under my eyes. This prevents concealer from going gray. Alyssa uses the Bobbi Brown Under Eye Corrector. So you want to choose a contrasting color to your undereye color. This is how to find your shade: “Take a look at the discoloration under the eye. If it’s bluish-purple, choose a bisque shade. If it’s greenish-brown, choose a peach shade. If it’s a mix of both, choose a peach-bisque shade.”

PRO TIP: Add some corrector where the lid meets the nose for added brightness:)

4. Under Eye Concealer

This is the one I always use for shoots: IT Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye Full Coverage Anti-Aging Waterproof Concealer. I really love how it looks and feels.

5. Eyeshadow

As I said, I really hate wearing eyeshadow so Alyssa doesn’t put any on me. The eyeshadow primer she uses helps avoid “oily” eyelids (which I don’t really have) and helps the eyeliner grip. I did ask her what she would use if I did want wear eyeshadow and she recommended this matte Makeup By Mario palette because it’s neutral and really buildable.

6. Eyeliner

To keep a more natural, enhanced look, we go very minimal on the eyeliner. She tight lines (meaning she goes inner waterline of my eyes) with MAC’s Pro Longwear Fluidline in Blacktrack which is a soft black and this small angled brush.

7. Foundation

As all of you know I’m a die-hard Armani Luminous Silk foundation gal so that’s what Alyssa uses on me but I asked her what some of her other favorites were and she loves MAC’s Studio Radiance Face & Body Radiant Sheer Foundation for everyday and Lancôme Teint Idole Ultra 24H Long Wear Matte Foundationfor events. Her biggest reminder for a more “natural look” is to go for light to medium coverage. You still want to be able to see your beautiful skin:)

8. Highlighter

I don’t really use highlighters but I asked Alyssa about it in case you love it! She said, “The one that really rocks the show is the Hourglass Ambient® Lighting Finishing Powder. “It’s not “technically” a highlighter, but it’s a very glowy setting powder and it makes skin look amazing!” For the everyday, Alyssa uses Rare Beauty.

PRO TIP (for liquid highlighters): It looks really beautiful UNDER foundation:)

9. Blush

It’s a classic for a reason – NARS Orgasm. Apply with a flat round stipple brush. That brush will help build the blush so it goes on nicely:) 

PRO TIP: For a more youthful look, apply to the apples of your cheeks or C shape around the eye for a more adult look. Just don’t go below where your cheek crests to avoid aging yourself.

10. Eyebrows!

If you’ve been around for a while then you know I basically don’t have eyebrows. It’s super cool. To fill them in, Alyssa uses Benefit’s Precisely, My Brow Pencil Waterproof Eyebrow Definer to give little hair details and then Benefit’s Goof Proof Waterproof Easy Shape & Fill Eyebrow Pencil in 3.75 to fill in.

PRO TIP: For blondes go one shade darker than your hair color and for brunettes go one shade side lighter.

11. Mascara

Since I have lashes I don’t use mascara but if you do she recommends LancômeMonsieur Big Waterproof Mascara.

12. Lips

What can I say I love a drugstore lipstick. This Wet n Wild one (Bare It All) is my favorite.

13. Setting Spray

The last crucial step in long-lasting makeup! Alyssa uses MAC’s Prep + Prime FIX+ for a satin finish. This can bring makeup back to life after applying matte makeup. Alyssa also REALLY loves this setting spray by Urban Decay.

Hope this helped if you’ve been hoping for some guidance on “natural” looking makeup:)

*Makeup by Alyssa Fitchie
**Photos by Kaitlin Green

Two years ago I did a super low-budget, last-minute “fun” review of this HigherDOSE sauna blanket shot with Mal’s iPhone (some pandemic content still haunts me and yet makes me smile). I had been using it for a year and a half at that time, and since every single person who saw it asked me all about it, I figured you’d be curious as well. So I wrote the OG post with more of a minute-by-minute review (and in that post, I talk about the benefits – both the ones you can prove and the ones you can’t). And listen, I get this isn’t for everyone and that’s fine! Simply come back tomorrow. So when they reached out recently to sponsor some social with their newest version I said yes (despite obviously not being a home or design partnership) because it’s still something I really like and use, and maybe you are into this stuff, too. I, personally, have found that is a huge mood booster (in the winter months, especially) and gives me something to look forward to every night. And I’m not alone – saunas are obviously taking off in America (long since loved in Northern Europe) and are universally credited for being good for your physical and mental health. This isn’t pseudo-science, y’all (while many other things I agree can feel like that). But many of us don’t have the room or budget for a home sauna (although, I’m working on it TBH) so this blanket is IMHO is a GREAT alternative for those of us wanting the physical and mental benefits of a sauna, but on our sofa or in a bed.

How It Works:

Sauna Blanket

Again, the first post is more detailed, but essentially it’s a sleeping bag that uses infrared heat to penetrate deep into your body through your skin (a traditional steam sauna is also really good for you). The benefits that I feel are mood-boosting, sweating (which always feels good), and most scientists accept that it’s great for circulation and cardiovascular health (the blood flow expands and loosens your blood vessels like a workout does). Yes, you burn more calories than if you were just laying there, but that’s hard to track and not why I do it. I just love the happy hormones released (especially after) which stay with me for a few hours and I tend to sleep deeper and longer at night. This is all my personal experience and perspective (and this post is not sponsored by HigherDOSE, just the social media on Instagram – so yes, we are giving them a free post but I HAD to redo the first one to give better photos).

So What Do You Do?

Well, you choose your temperature (I’m a solid 8 or 9) and it takes 10 minutes to warm up before you need to get in. In that time you get dressed, head to toe in something light but full coverage (Including socks) or if you have their towel you can go naked inside it (I haven’t done this yet but will next week as I just found my towel again and this sounds pretty darn fun). Before you get in make sure to have all your necessities (kindle, remote, water, phone, apple watch, or heart monitor if you do that) within reach, and lay in it for 50 minutes (make sure to track what time you pressed the button to begin because it turns off 60 minutes after that but there is no timer or count down indicator on the plug thing, which I wish there were).

I highly recommend watching mindless TV (either Magnolia Network design shows but realistically something in The Bachelor franchise) as I find concentrating on a book, podcast, or a good show to be more difficult. Or maybe it’s because I never get to watch TV and I have at least an hour or two of podcast time a day walking the pups and Brian and I read every night in bed, so this is MAMA’S GARBAGE TV TIME.

Here I’m looking all peaceful like I’m napping, but trust me, Love Island is on right in front of me. The new blanket model, as you can see, has a zipper instead of velcro which is so much better. If you are curious about a minute-by-minute breakdown, again read the first post. But the summary is that it’s super pleasant for the first 30-40 minutes, but the last 20-30 can be challenging (but so worth it). Obviously, you can do a lower setting if you just want it to feel pleasant, but I like to sweat it out and really know that my body was being challenged (but I’m also an endorphin junkie and love to cold plunge in my bathtub, so again, this isn’t for everyone).

By the end, I was extremely sweaty, felt hot as hell, and ready to get out and get that burst of “relief endorphins”. I was in an excellent mood for the rest of the night. And a lot of people wonder if it’s gross and smells and the answer is “mine doesn’t”. Most of my sweat is on my clothes and hair or on the towel, but the bag itself stays dry, but they do sell a spray cleaner for those just wanting to, you know, not be disgusting.

And there you go. Usually, I do this at night – either 6:30-7:30 pm after dinner if the kids are watching something in the family room or 8:30-9:30 pm after they are down. But this day we shot it during work hours with Kaitlin and Emily, and I have to say it made the rest of the night of solo parenting so much happier and healthier. It’s like doing a mini workout at the end of the day which I find checks a big box and totally curbs my desire for a glass of wine.

The Infrared Face Mask

Red Light Face Mask

Now for one of the most terrifying-looking wellness inventions out there – the red light face mask. I, like many of you, have been hearing about this for a while and it seems like the anecdotal evidence is mounting on the benefits of this as well. I’ve only used this a couple of times so I can’t honestly say that it changed my skin but I will say that there are so many people who say it increases collagen (something I’m very into in a non-invasive way) and helps with acne.

You strap it on your head (which isn’t uncomfortable) and it penetrates with infrared light.

Feel free to terrify your dog or child while wearing it. My kids are NOT a fan 🙂

So basically you just sit there and wear it, either for a 10 or 20-minute session. I found that I didn’t like to have my eyes open (it comes with tanning salon-style eye covers if you want) so it’s more of a podcast time for me rather than working or watching TV. I’m not a scientist so I’m unsure if the light is bad for your eyes, so please be sure to read the instructions and wear the goggles.

But all in all, I’m giving this a serious GO this year because I keep reading more and more articles (not by any brands, but by dermatologists) saying that it’s highly effective in producing collagen (which keeps your skin looking full and bouncy and what we get depleted of as we age). So maybe in a year I’ll have an actual review for you where I can say this easy twice-a-week terrifying mask aged me backward. IMHO the problem with topical beauty products is that it’s really hard to track what is truly effective unless you isolate its use, take photos every day, or don’t change anything else in your routine (including diet/nutrition/lifestyle). I can tell you how much I love how a face lotion feels on my skin, but saying that “Lotion XYZ” reduced wrinkles in a couple of weeks is hard to say if I am also trying out other products or not staying consistent. That’s all to say that unless I commit to using this twice a week for six months I won’t be sure what positive effects I can attribute to it and see its effectiveness for myself. So that’s my plan this year – use it more frequently in hopes that I can see a difference. And if I do notice improvement, like a lot of other people have, I’ll tell you, I promise.

Thanks for going along with me on this odd pursuit of reviewing new wellness products that I know some of you roll your eyes at while others really appreciate my experience. It won’t become a habit, but I sure do enjoy it all. And thanks to HigherDOSE for sponsoring the reel and stories (not this blog post). Now, I can’t stress this enough – this blanket is not cheap and she’s big, so it’s not something you want to own and NOT use. If you can go to an infrared sauna spa before you buy for a session or two and make sure you like it before you make the investment (that’s what I did). If you don’t enjoy being really hot, you likely won’t use this and I don’t want you to waste your money on it:)

*Oh and lastly, if you bought the first one that has a velcro closing, I don’t think you need to upgrade to this newer zipper version. Sure it’s more streamlined and sleek without the air gaps that can happen, but the first model for me still works splendidly.

Goodbye from me and my happy, sweaty face:) If you’d like to try out one of these at home, you can use code EMILY15 for 15% off your purchase.

*Photos by Kaitlin Green

This was a post I wrote waaaay back in early 2020! It was meant to be “winter content” as it’s harder to get a tan from the actual sun when it’s cold outside. But as I’ve been talking with my team we just aren’t into the whole “sit in the sun and bake” idea anymore. Protecting our skin and health is pretty important to us but that doesn’t mean we want to totally forgo that tanned glow, right? So we thought that reposting this VERY important and practical content might just be what some of y’all want. Enjoy:)

My team has heard me reference spray tanning for years and when we were brainstorming our lifestyle content for February, they all begged me to do a post about it because they are all curious and want try, but they are scared. So today I’m answering all their questions about how I get my “natural” spray tan in the middle of winter, for under 4 minutes and around $16. I’m not saying you should do this, nor encouraging the idea that tan skin is better than pale – no weird skin shaming here. But, like covering grays or straightening hair, it is something that some people do and even more people are curious about. And while it’s innately driven in a superficial (literally skin deep) way, I think most of us can relate to the confidence boost we get when we are looking healthy and pulled together – whatever that looks like to you. I’m an expert in it (the spray tan, not the “pulled together” look), so get ready because I’m about to drop some spray tan knowledge.

Let me walk you through it all …

WHAT IS A SPRAY TAN?

A spray-tan is a liquid formula with DHA that when sprayed evenly makes you look like you’ve been in the sun and you feel all glowy. There are many levels and tones and indeed you might want to experiment before say, your red carpet walk or your wedding. The same formula can also be in a lot of tanning lotions (we’ll get to that later).

There Are Two Types Of Spray Tans: “Airbrush” And “Booth”.

Airbrush means a real live person actually sprays you *naked* either in a pop-up booth in your home ($50 – $100 depending on where you live and level of experience) or at a salon ($60 – $80). It’s highly embarrassing but you will get a much longer-lasting tan that might look more natural and it’s, ahem, thorough. If you are in LA, I recommend Brittany from Be Bronze Studio.

A “booth” is literally a vertical booth that you stand in and nozzles go up and down and spray you evenly on your front and back. It is faster and more affordable – I have a $60/month membership at a non-fancy place and I go once a week (thus the $16 – it’s likely around $30 if you just buy one). It takes me between 4 – 7 minutes from start to finish (I know because I’ve timed myself SO MANY TIMES while I’ve made Brian wait in the car). There are two major brands of booths – Versa and Mystic. As I’m writing this I literally had no idea how much of an expert I am. I much prefer Versa because it’s more natural and much faster. There are typically 3 different levels of Versa that differ in intensity (and differ from booth to booth). I typically do level #2 bronze (the difference between bronze and clear is that they both give you a tan but “bronze” gives you an immediate glow that will yes, get on your clothes and sheets, and “clear” doesn’t show up for 8 hours, but since I like instant gratification I get bronze).

What do I do before a spray tan? Any prep?

1. You want to be clean, but not crazy exfoliated because it won’t stick as well. Around the ankles and wrists it will stick more because those areas are less smooth for whatever reason. Ideally, you shave the day before but I’ve shaven the day of one million times.
2. Don’t spray tan and then mani/pedi or get a blowout, or do anything that has to do with water or it will take the color off your hands/feet/calves and neck…
3. Do NOT get your first spray tan before an important event like a wedding. They can be uneven, too orange, or too dark so test it out, go on Yelp, ask for recommendations. For any special occasion, I get a custom airbrush done to guarantee that it’s a natural tone and it’s even (again, you have to make an appointment, it takes at least 20 minutes and costs about 4 times the cost of a booth in LA, otherwise I would do it all the time). They can even vary from booth to booth within the same brand so test out that particular booth first.
4. You need to wear a loose-fitting dress afterward so it doesn’t stick to your body and rub off your tan (it also feels incredibly gross to put on tight skinny jeans after this – you are sticky and damp for hours). No combat boots either. Think flip-flops or loose sneakers.

There I am the day before the shoot, consider this a “before”. Those are the four poses that you are supposed to do in the booth, and no I’m not psyched that I had to publish those on the internet. I also waited until my last spray tan was totally gone as you can see to do this post, which was QUITE the sacrifice.

What Happens Once In The Spray Tan Room?

1. Put your barrier cream on your hands and feet (see IGTV on Instagram). Apply liberally, but if you want to do it perfectly google some videos. I’m not the best at it.
2. Put on your hairnet and make sure it’s not too far onto your forehead (true story – I had like a full 1/2 inch tan near my hairline on my whole face once for an entire day). In the winter, I usually put a hairnet on my face too, so that only a bit of it gets on my face. This can make it pretty uneven between my face and my chest, but I don’t love a super tan face in winter (or ever on me). I really just want a tan body, not an orange face.
3. Take off jewelry, at least your necklaces and bracelets (I leave my rings because I always have those on so those tan lines don’t matter).
4. Step on a towel or buy the little foam things to stand on or else the bottom of your feet will be orange for weeks.
5. Get into the booth – NAKED or with whatever clothes you want (but you’ll have SEVERE “tan” lines).
6. Press the button and wait for the robot lady to tell you to move into the above four poses as the sprayer goes up and down 4 times. It then dries you on both sides.

What Are The DOs And DONT’s After Getting A Spray Tan?

1. You can’t take a shower for 8 hours – that’s the minimum amount of time for it to “activate”.
2. If you see it looking REALLY DARK then wash your face and chest. I think it sticks faster there and it can look dark and really unnatural. I usually don’t shower the next day because I like it to keep activating and get even darker, but you kinda stink and it’s pretty gross.
3. Most people shower the next morning but don’t scrub and don’t use a rag. Just let the water run and you’ll see the brown water of the bronzer go down the drain.
4. You should be careful about having sex for 8 hours, too. I’ve NEVER been in this situation before but I’ve heard from an airbrush person that if “certain liquids” get on it it will indeed take it off if under the 8 hours within that region. That “tan line” is harder to explain in a bathing suit the next day at the pool…
5. You should expect that it will get on your sheets, jammies, pillowcases, and towels. Mine always comes out, but I can’t vouch for your spray tan (it’s the same with most tanning lotions). I will say that if you like your sheets crisp white then you should likely need to bleach them, but again it’s not a huge problem for me.
6. You can go swimming, get a massage, sit in a hot tub, steam room, or sauna but all those things will reduce how long it lasts. I tell you this because usually people spray tan before vacation, so just know the consequences of your fun 🙂 I feel like one day in a chlorine pool takes mine totally off (If I’m on vacation I use St. Tropez at night on my legs and I’m happy – use the mitt).

THE NEXT DAY (or 8 hours later):

Yep. There she is. You might say that my legs are tanner than my face and you are right. I could use bronzer on my face if I wanted to even it out, but I wanted to show you what it looked like. That color will last for 2 -3 days with minimal showering.

As a reminder – here you go:

I consider it makeup for your body. It’s not that big of a deal but it does make me feel more comfortable at least wearing shorts. Head to the video to watch the video of the process which is both entertaining and yes, embarrassing but super informative.

If the booth spray sounds like too much to you (or you just want a good at-home product) here are our favorites:

1. St. Tropez Set of 2 8 oz. Classic Self Tan Mousse with Mitts | 2. Kate Somerville Glow Duo Tanning Towels & Exfolikate | 3. Neutrogena Build A Tan Lotion | 4. Banana Boat Summer Color Self-Tanning Lotion

I’ve used the St. Tropez for years and love it (I opt for the booth because it can get back, butt, and is just more even but if I ever just want legs done I use this). Kate Somerville wipes are great if you have some color already but just want a glow, and Julie and Sara both love the Neutrogena and Banan Boat options.

We would love your suggestions in the comments – especially if there are any new organic brands (or booths) we should try.

xx

Emily

As you may or may not know, I’ve been wearing the same makeup for years and years. And by “same” I mean literally have been milking the same bottle of foundation and stick of lipstick for a LONG TIME. So long that I was getting lip acne that I blamed on wearing masks, but then I realized I was rarely wearing a mask because I work from home so why the acne? When I googled “Why am I getting zits around my lips” the first thing that came up is ‘”Are you wearing old lipstick?” and I was like, “Whoops. Yah. Gross. You dummy.” So now that the mask mandate is lifted here I felt it was time to go in person to Sephora to get some fresh face supplies during their sale. While there I asked the salesperson what were the new products that everyone was freaking out about? Anything new that people love or are raving about? Their big sale started yesterday so I figured it was a good time. Then beyond what’s hot, I told her my needs and she was SO HELPFUL. Here’s what she recommended:

Dior Lip Oil

Dior Lip Oil: It was sold out at the store and apparently still is everywhere – I even saw it on Poshmark for $90 (it retails for$35) so good luck finding it, but I still wanted to share it just in case you happen upon it at a random store. It sure must be amazing 🙂 Since they were out of that she recommended the Merit Tinted Lip Oil, which I did get and love. It feels so moist, but not sticky and the color stays (I’ve only worn it for one day, but so far so good). I got it in “Au Naturel” and “Cara Cara” which is slightly more of a pop, but not too bright.

Peter Thomas Roth Temporary Eye Tightener

Peter Thomas Roth Temporary Eye Tightener: I’m never leaving the house again without it (for shoots anyway). It absolutely diminished the appearance of fine lines. It felt tight and just worked. It’s mostly peptides I think but beyond that, I have no idea how it’s so effective so fast. I’m not saying it’s “good” for your skin, you simply look less wrinkled if you are into that. I think this is an excellent gift to give someone you are close enough to give a wrinkler reducer gift to. I was SHOCKED. I didn’t do a before/after when I put it on the first time but will today and put it on social for you. It does feel VERY tight though. It’s not uncomfortable per se but you can feel it on your face.

Super Goop Glow

Super Goop Glow Oil: I’ve been wearing the face sunscreen for a long time, but this is awesome because it’s a spray that you can easily reapply over lotion/makeup. People are super into I guess. Caitlin concurred that she loves it too and wears it every day.

Benefit Precisely, My Brow Pencil

Benefit Brow Pencil: I went to get a new brow pencil from Anastasia (which are excellent because they are so fine) but I complained to her that they don’t last that long and she agreed. She said for that reason she recommends the Benefit Precisely, My Brow Pencil instead. I guess it has hair-like strokes (and was more affordable). I got it in “Warm Light Brown”. So far so good, although I really do need someone to still help me with my brows. Does anyone know any great portland brow people??

Nars Light Reflecting Foundation

Nars Light Reflecting Foundation: My friend Whitney told me about this first, then the salesperson confirmed that indeed people are FREAKING out about this foundation. I guess it’s trying to compete with the Armani foundation I’ve been using for a decade. I bought it and sadly the color I chose is slightly too warm for me so I need to exchange it if they let me (I got #5 Salsburg, when I should have gotten 4, I think). She also recommended Kosas foundation for the exact same results – light reflecting, light on your skin, etc – and Kosas is clean beauty (it was just sold out at the store, otherwise I would have snagged it).

Hourglass Ambient® Lighting Powder

Hourglass Ambient® Lighting Powder: I bought this a couple of years ago and still LOVE IT. Whitney confirmed it was great and the salesperson also adamantly agreed. I bought radiant bronze light (for more tan/sunkissed) and ambient (more everyday glow). BIG FAN.

Laura Mercier Light Revealer Tinted Moisturizer (SPF 25)

Laura Mercier Light Revealer Tinted Moisturizer (SPF 25): I have the oil-free version (which I think I bought because I have lash extensions and you try to reduce the amount of oil on your face with those) but my skin is dry so I need oil. This one has the oil and so far it’s great (and that’s the general consensus). You have a lot of flexibility with the shades since it’s just a tint, so it’s easy to reapply on the go, etc.

Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Setting Spray

Charlotte Tilbery Airbrush Flawless Setting Spray: They were out of this, but they had the sample that we tried on our wrist and it did leave a glow. I wouldn’t have thought so since it’s a “setting” spray but it was a lovely sheen. I just ordered the mini size to try it out.

Freck Rich Bitch Lotion

Rich Bitch Lotion: Y’all the founder, Remi used to work for me. Her company Freck Beauty, which started with this fake freckle product, has expanded a lot. When she sent me her new line including this lotion a couple of years ago I expected to like it fine enough, but was super surprised. The lotion is EXTREMELY hydrating. I buy spendy stuff (like Tata Harper, PCR) which I also like, but there were many times since I’ve run out of this lotion that I’ve wanted it on my face. It’s just extremely moisturizing without being “thick”. Anyway, I asked the salesperson about it and she was like “oh I LOVE this lotion” which confirmed it. I am psyched to have it again. I use it as a night cream because my skin wakes up still feeling soft.

Charlotte Tilbury Hollywood Flawless Filter

Charlotte Tilbery Hollywood Flawless Filter: OH the marketing manipulation on that name. But Whitney told me that it has a cult following even before I went into Sephora. It was one of the first things my salesperson shouted about. I bought it. Haven’t used it yet, but maybe I will today and show you on Instagram stories.

The other things I bought and loved are a Milk blush/lip cream (in “Dash” which is pretty light – I wish I had gotten brighter), and the Laneige Lip Glowy Balm which is super soft and shiny (not sticky). Now my biggest debate during the Sephora sale is that stupidly expensive Dyson Hair Dryer. I used it at my friend’s the other day and yes, of course, it’s wonderful. My hair was far less frizzy, and it was super fast. It’s just so hard to justify that kind of money on a hair dryer, but if I’m ever going to it should be while it’s on sale.

SO that’s my Sephora haul and I am very happy with it and that I (hopefully) won’t have lip acne anymore. What are your top makeup or skincare products you use year after year? I’d love to know xx

Opener Image Credit: Home of Corbett Tuck | Styling by Velinda Hellen, Emily Bowser, & Erik Staalberg | Photo by Sara Ligorria-Tramp | From: The New Design Rules

Here’s the thing I know will be true. Some of you with naturally curly hair will want to shake me and scream why would you want to change your perfectly straight hair?? Those with straight hair will be super intrigued and eager to see how this turns out. We all want we can’t have. When I showed family my new perm my aunt with gorgeous naturally curly hair was like, “It looks good! But I want straight hair!” It’s just the way it goes.

All of us straight-haired gals dream about curly hair at one time or another. Because I have always had straight hair, I have always envied people with bouncy, exciting curls. I am talking Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City or Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman vibes. So a couple of years ago when I heard perms are back, I immediately hopped on board. My mom grew up in the eighties so I have heard perm horror stories but I wouldn’t let that deter me. But then a pandemic happened and lots of things became more pressing than getting a perm. But as fate would have it, a few months ago the opportunity to get a perm landed in my lap. Just as all hero journeys go, the stars aligned and I was chosen for the quest.

This is me and my naturally straight hair. And I love my hair, I really do. I am very lucky to have healthy, thick, long hair, but the look you see here is the one thing my hair does. What I mean is, I am not capable of any type of hairstyling so hair down is the only hair “look” I have in my arsenal. I was beyond ready to switch it up and try something very new.

Enter Curl Cult founded by Emily’s friend and hairstylist Janine. Janine spent four years in Italy creating this new perm technology so I felt extremely safe and comfortable in her hands. I am famously super trusting with hairstylists so I was ready for her to give me the most intense, voluminous curls possible. You know what they say. When in Rome.

Emily was pretty nervous for me and volunteered to be my mom/hair advocate. But I am fairly gutsy when it comes to my hair. I have chopped off all my hair multiple times including getting a pixie cut when I was 16. I guess I have never had a haircut bad enough to make me fearful. *KNOCKS ON WOOD*

I think the above photo depicts Emily, a curly-haired gal explaining to me, a straight-haired gal, that I will have CURLS by the end of this. HA. I think we both would like to swap hair (hence Emily’s blowout and my eagerness to get a perm) so she was trying her best to prep me for curly hair life. Her biggest fear was that I wouldn’t like it. My biggest fear was that my hair would be a few inches shorter. But other than that I was ready and excited.

I showed Janine the level of curl I wanted, while Emily held all the nerves for me. I knew I wanted a layered, voluminous look and was willing to go extremely curly. I really wanted a brand new look, so the curlier the better.

HERE WE GO!

First, Lauren gave me a trim and layered my hair so the curls wouldn’t be too uniform. If I wasn’t getting married this year, I would have done a full 70s shag perm with bangs. But I had to keep it tame for the wedding, and getting bangs is always a risk.

This is the last photo of me with straight hair. Now the party’s about to begin.

Once my hair was washed and conditioned, Janine got to work rolling individual, approximately 1 inch sized strands of my hair. I am no mathematician but I think she had to put in around 100 rolls in my hair. This process probably took the longest and by the time this step was complete, it felt like my head weighed an extra 15 pounds from all the rollers.

The next step is putting a liberal amount of perm solution on each strand. If you ever have gotten a perm, you might remember the smell. It’s not pleasant and the sulfur stink would linger in your hair for days. I didn’t know this but luckily I didn’t have to experience it. Janine spent 4 years working with a chemist in Italy to remove the stinky smells of perms. Her perm reduced the caustic odor adding a fresh berry scent and it WORKED. So this isn’t a smelly American perm, it’s a refined berry-infused ~Italian perm~

Once the solution was applied, I sat in a chair under a heat lamp and waited for about 30 minutes.

Once the perm goddesses (Janine and Lauren) declared the solution was set, they applied a neutralizer. This is another way Janine eliminated steps in the perm process. Their neutralizer is applied over their perm solution, so there is no more messy rinsing and blotting at the bowl. Seriously, Janine’s process is magic.

Once the rollers were removed we rinsed and conditioned my hair once more. You know the famous Legally Blonde quote?

“Isn’t it the first cardinal rule of perm maintenance that you are forbidden to wet your hair for at least 24 hours after getting a perm at the risk of deactivating the ammonium thioglycolate” Well more accurately, you are forbidden to shampoo your hair for 48 hours. If you do, it will reverse the perm so if you have full regret, it’s an option. But luckily that was not my experience at all.

The next step feels the longest because you just want to see what the result is. But you must wait for it to air dry so the curls can fully activate. My hair is very thick so this took about an hour (with the help of a heat lamp). As I was letting it air dry I could see the curls were forming and becoming more alive by the minute as I was anxiously awaiting the final reveal.

SHE HAS CURLS. Honestly, we were all shocked at how good it looked. You really never know what a hairstyle change will do to your face and your whole look but luckily I was immediately in love. I think I said “I feel like Julia Roberts ala Pretty Woman” far too many times.

You can almost tell through photos how soft and touchable this perm is. Perms back in the day were crunchy but this perm feels and looks natural. People have assumed that I’ve always had curly hair and that I am just now starting to wear it naturally. *flips hair* No big deal.

The texture is so gorgeous and soft. I couldn’t stop flipping my hair back and forth – it was so fun. That day was windy so you can really see the frizz but as someone with straight hair, I found the big frizzy hair extremely charming. You can come for me in the comments if you want, but I feel powerful having voluminous hair that can not be tamed.

So this concludes my hero’s journey. It was the best experience and I would 100% do it all over again. Next time, I might even go shoulder-length and even curlier. I am all in.

If you want this perm (and you should) I have great news. You do not need to be based in LA to get it. Your stylist can be Curl Cult Certified and join the movement in just 45 minutes. Just have them start here. You can also find a Curl Cult Certified stylist near you here.

And there’s us – just 3 curly-haired gals out on the town! Thank you, thank you, thank you, Janine for giving me the curls I have always wanted. It’s so fun being a curly-haired gal and I think everyone should try it. Here is a video of the whole process if you are interested (just wait for the add to play):

And in case you are curious, here is what it looks like now, one month after the perm:

This is another difference between the Curl Cult perm and the perms of the past. The grow-out process is much easier because the perm softens over time. My perm has already softened so I get effortless, beach curls with no heat or styling tools. I just use the Curl Cult Shampoo and Conditioner, Magic Spell (this stuff is bottled GOLD), and Curl Cream and let it air dry (you can get the whole kit here). I am famously very lazy with my hair so it’s incredible I get this look with the tiniest bit of effort.

Again, THANK YOU JANINE. I could not have enjoyed this experience or the results more. If you have any questions, fire them down below. xx

*Photos by Sara Ligorria-Tramp

It’s been nine months since my first Gel-X manicure and let me tell you: I’m never going back. Dips? Acrylics? Extensions? Regular gel? NO MORE FOR ME, THANK YOU. So today, I wanted to share a little bit more about Gel-X (you know – what it is, how much it costs, how long it lasts, the pros/cons) buuuuut I also wanted to bring in a few familiar faces to share their opinions and experiences. (If you’re the type of person with the dexterity to paint your own nails, we’re also sharing 42 different shots of our actual manicures – maybe we can spark some of your creativity! And, if you’re like, “uh, nails aren’t for me,” there’s even a picture of a real-life horse in here! Why? You’ll find out! Anyway, something for everyone!) Let’s start with the high-level overview, yeah?

Basically, Gel-X is a press-on nail that cures like gel (read: your nail technician will size up your hands, glue on a nail of your preferred shape/length, and your ~new nails~ will be firmly attached for about a month after you shove your hand under one of those UV lights). Once everything has cured, your technician will proceed as normal – polish, art, lotion, oil, an occasional full hand model photoshoot for their IG, etc. – and when you’re finally ready to come back in a few weeks to switch things up, the removal process is the same as it would be for any standard gel manicure.

Gel-X nails are flexible (so they won’t snap in half when you jam your hand into a wall, or a counter, or your car, or some other place, as regular humans are wont to do). They’re also really lightweight, especially when compared to acrylics, and they look natural – or, uh, as natural as neon cow print nails can look, at least.

More than anything, though, I’ve found that Gel-X nails just make me feel really, really, really great. There’s something kind of fun and visceral about clacking away on something, you know? But this isn’t just about me – three other EHD gals have hopped on the Gel-X train, so I wanted to grab their unbiased opinions, too. I’ll check in with you below (and I’ll spill the details on my average spend!), but first…let me throw it over to the queen of nail art, Veronica.

Veronica

When’d you start trying out Gel-X? My first Gel-X manicure was in June of 2021, because I wanted to do something special for my birthday, and since then it’s been a nice once-a-month self-care routine during the pandemic. 🙂

Had you invested in nails or nail art before (e.g. gels, acrylics, press-ons, etc.)? Before Gel-X, I had gotten gel on my regular nails and tried press ons / glue ons, but those only averaged about 2 weeks max.

Was there an adjustment period to Gel-X? Not really. Gel-X is better for your nails than acrylics, but your nails do thin still because of them being sanded down in the process.

What’s your preferred shape and length? I go back and forth between getting somewhere between an almond and stiletto shape and a square shape. I usually keep them short-medium length because of my job (photographer who works on her computer most days, or is dealing with equipment when I’m on set).

How long do your appointments take? Appointments take between 1.5 – 2 hours.

How long do your nails stay on? I’ve never had a nail fall off when getting Gel-X, and I usually get mine done anywhere between three and four weeks because my nails grow out pretty quickly.

How do your nails feel? My nails feel good, not like they are being ruined or anything, but they are thinner for sure since starting Gel-X! Although, my nails have always been on the thin side.

Is there an average cost? The place I go to is on the more expensive side (between $90-100 before tip) because I found a nail tech I really love and trust, but I know a salon that a pal of mine has gone to and it’s around $65 starting price. It really just depends on the salon, but I have found it’s important to go somewhere you feel the techs are able to take care of your nails in a healthy way. 

Where do you get your nail art inspiration? I use Pinterest and Instagram for nail inspo and have saved boards on both. Two accounts I follow on Instagram are: Nia Ho & Vivian W and the other saved posts have popped up on my explore page. 🙂

Any pros and cons? I’m not a professional, so I can only speak to my personal opinion lol but pros – if you want something that will last without having to worry about chipping, breaking, or touch-ups, then the Gel-X is a great option.

Cons – it can add up and get expensive depending on how often you get them done and it’s important to get them taken off in a salon so you don’t ruin your nails trying to do them yourself. 

Ryann

When’d you start trying out Gel-X? I started October 2021.

Had you invested in nails or nail art before (e.g. gels, acrylics, press-ons, etc.)? Years and years ago I used to get acrylic nails but I hated it. More recently I was a press-on nail gal but only for special occasions.

Was there an adjustment period to Gel-X? Oh yeah. At first, I felt like I couldn’t do anything with long nails but I got used to it pretty fast. Typing was very hard at first (I looked like this).

What’s your preferred shape and length? I get the medium length and almond shape.

How long do your appointments take? If I am getting a Gel-X removal plus a new set it usually takes an hour and a half.

How long do your nails stay on? The longest I have gone between appointments is 4 weeks and they were still holding on!

How do your nails feel? My actual nails feel a lot stronger than they did when I used to get acrylics. I think the Gel-X is a lot more gentle on your actual nails.

Is there an average cost? With tip it’s between $100-150 (when you do designs versus a solid color it’s closer to $150).

Where do you get your nail art inspiration? Instagram or my friends!

Any pros and cons? Pros: I feel put together even when I am wearing sweats. And I get compliments all the time. :’)

Cons: If the technician cuts my actual nails too short before putting the Gel X on as my nails start to grow out it can be painful because my nails start to grow into my nail bed (it’s gross I know). But the easy fix to this is to tell your nail tech not to cut your actual nails.

Jess

When’d you start trying out Gel-X? October 5, 2021 (my birthday:)).

Had you invested in nails or nail art before (e.g. gels, acrylics, press-ons, etc.)? I went a couple of years getting gel manicures all the time when I worked in restaurants because it was the only kind that actually lasted. Getting a regular mani at the time was like throwing money directly into the trash. Then a few years ago I got a gel manicure with a design for the first time and my god I loved it but wasn’t able to afford it on the regular. This go around however was my first time EVER getting “fake nails”. My mom gave me a hard no when I wanted those french tip acrylics in middle school. I guess being like all the other cool girls wasn’t a good enough argument. 

Was there an adjustment period to Gel-X? Lol yes. I felt like Edward Scissorhands but less proficient for at least a week. I remember the next morning trying to put on my leggings thinking “I don’t think I can dress myself. This nail thing is a LIFESTYLE!” I was mainly afraid of them ripping off which is apparently a VERY normal experience for newbs like me. But then when I got my second and now with my third, they just feel like my normal fingernails.

What’s your preferred shape and length? I love an almond shape and medium length. I don’t know if “medium” is a technical term but I want them to look longish and elegant but still want to be able to you know, type. I will also say that the physical gel-x shape is I think called Stiletto (not the tip shape but fact check me on that). Basically, I like the nail to look slender. The second set I got (the green one above) felt a little wide for me. Just something to think about if you are going in for the first time or if you want a different look.

How long do your appointments take? Eh, 1.5 to 2 hours depending on the design. The first time is the shortest since they don’t have to remove your old set.

How long do your nails stay on? So far about six weeks. BUT I have chosen designs where the “background” is clear or “natural”. Why that’s a good idea if you want to stretch out your mani is that the grow-out is less noticeable than if I had a solid color.

How do your nails feel? Ok, so the plan is to have my real nails grow long enough to where I can just go back to gel manicures and they are almost there (except one stupid one that broke so not sure if I need to wait until that one grows back). That being said, you can see my real nails when I flip my hands over. It’s not the prettiest if I’m honest but I’ve got goals. So when you go, you have the choice to keep your natural nails long or cut them short so you really can’t see them ever. How do my real nails feel you ask? When the fake ones get shaved off, they feel oookay. Look, it’s a sacrifice. I don’t know if it’s possible to have perfectly healthy nails and do anything beyond a regular manicure. All I know is that for now, I love having my nails done and fun for six weeks at a time. 

Is there an average cost? $105 + Tip (I usually give $30 because they do such a great job and they are literally painting art onto my hands).

Where do you get your nail art inspiration? Pinterest and Instagram. I have folders that I save to. But also Beyonce was my last inspiration so look at those celeb nails too! Veronica also shares accounts she loves which is so fun and very sweet of her. We go to the same salon too!

Any pros and cons? Pros: I LOVE my nails and they make me feel sexy, powerful, and put together.

Cons: It’s not cheap and I know that my real nails aren’t living their best lives. Oh, and activities like bowling and putting on necklaces are hard.

Caitlin

When’d you start trying out Gel-X? Got my first one on May 19, 2021 and I never went back.

Had you invested in nails or nail art before (e.g. gels, acrylics, press-ons, etc.)? I used to spend a bunch on standard gel manicures with full art – that’s the one beauty splurge that I really loved – but I had a really bad habit of picking it all off, which (a.) made my hands look kind of gnarly and (b.) was not great for the health of my nails.

Was there an adjustment period to Gel-X? For me, no. I was used to having longer nails so other than the constant fear that they were going to pop off, they felt totally normal to me.

What’s your preferred shape and length? I started with medium ovals, but I moved into long territory with the set you see above. Scale-wise, I think longer ones look best on my hands.

How long do your appointments take? Removal can take 30-45 minutes and then my new manicure can be another 45 minutes to an hour, depending on how much detail I’m looking for.

How long do your nails stay on? I maxed out at 8 weeks for the holidays – I literally had to cut them like my regular nails because they’d grown out so much. That said, I did experience some lifting on the base of my pointer finger when I first started – this was remedied by bringing it up to my nail tech and I haven’t had any problems since! If you’re doing a lot of schlepping or manual work, I’d highly recommend flagging that before your first set.

How do your nails feel? Good! While I don’t mean to suggest that Gel-X is making my nails stronger, they’re in WAY better shape than when I used to get gel manicures sanded off every two weeks. When my sets are removed, my nails look pretty normal, too – no breakage or thinning is happening underneath the Gel-X nail.

Is there an average cost? I pay a $20 booking fee to reserve my spot and then manicures are $60-100, depending on how crazy I’m getting. Tips are always 20-25% – so basically $100 on the low end, $150 on the high end.

Where do you get your nail art inspiration? NIA!!! My nail tech is LA’s best-kept secret and while I kind of don’t want to share the intel (it’s already hard to get an appointment – she’s popular!!!), YOU MUST CHECK OUT HER INSTAGRAM. I do not know how Nia does not have a million followers – she can do ANYTHING. Seriously, her IG page is filled with a staggering variety and you’re guaranteed to find something inspiring there. SHE IS THE BEST. (I wouldn’t want to spend ~2 hours with anyone else.)

Any pros and cons? Pros: I feel really powerful and kind of intimidating when my nails are done. Shampooing my scalp feels like a dream. If I’m going to spend at least 8 hours a day typing, it cheers me up to see a little party going on at the tips of my fingers. Clinking my nails on glasses makes me feel really happy.

Cons: COST. I mean, when I break it down, I do think they bring me at least $3 of joy per day…but it’s not an essential and if things ever went south, I’m totally aware that this would be the first item cut from my budget. I don’t love subjecting my hands to such isolated UV rays once a month and sometimes I forget SPF before my appointments. Picking up coins is challenging. Working lobster clasps on jewelry is impossible. Nia’s studio is walking distance from my apartment and I get catcalled by a lot of creeps on my way to get my nails done. Despite all this…they’re worth it to me.

Apres Gel-X Nail Extension Kit

If you’re self-assured (I’m not) and want to give Gel-X a whirl at home, you can grab a kit right here. If not, check Yelp to find a highly-reviewed technician near you – if you’re going to splurge, make sure it’s on someone who can deliver long-lasting results that’ll make you smile.

But now I must know – what say you??? Tell me about your nail habits! Show me your nail art! Send me your inspo accounts! (I have an appointment next week and need a jumping-off point if anyone has suggestions.) LET’S JUST TALK ABOUT OUR HANDS. xx